Five reasons why we chose to sign with our son
Before Lucas came into my life, I never gave sign language a lot of thought. I was aware that sign language existed, but I had never encountered a deaf person. Sign language existed on the periphery of my mind, as it seemed irrelevant to me.
We were forced to consider sign language as soon as we learned that Lucas was deaf. It was unavoidable and immediately relevant. Since then, I have set myself the goal of learning British Sign Language (BSL), Level 2, by the time Lucas is three. I thought that it would be helpful to list my top five reasons for learning BSL and teaching Lucas.
1. Lucas has so many things to say
Lucas should tell me what he sees and feels. It’s wonderful to see him point out and sign at least 15 different birds, five airplanes, countless trees, cars, and other objects every day. I don’t want him to feel pressured to learn our language until he is ready. It is a delight to watch him form his words with his hand and see his satisfied smile when I have understood him.
2. We are looking for new friends
Lucas will grow up in a world where he has friends who are deaf as well as hearing. Many of them may likely speak BSL. He needs to learn BSL to be able to be the best possible friend.
I have met more deaf individuals in the last year than in my entire life. I want to make new friends along the way and chat with them.
3. Lucas should have multiple communication options
We decided to allow Lucas to start developing speech at a young age using a cochlear implant. While this technology is impressive, there are no guarantees. It’s, therefore, important to create multiple ways of communicating within our family.
Lucas may not want to wear the cochlear implant in the future. This could be after a long school day or when he is feeling unwell. They will also stop working at some point. We must be able to communicate and be inclusive with our family, regardless of whether or not he is wearing his technology.
4. Sign language is fascinating
It’s amazing to watch people sign up fluently. There is a perfect blend of body movement, hand shape, and expression. Signs are a great way to express emotions, emphasize, and tone. It is raw, honest, and physical. It’s a great experience to watch deaf performers and poets. You can find some on YouTube.
5. It’s fun to learn BSL
It’s a real joy for me to use my brain to learn a new language.
Even if BSL is not the way you choose to communicate with your family, I highly recommend that you learn it. You can find some excellent introductory courses online or in local colleges. You will learn more from a native BSL speaker if you do your levels with them. Join the British Sign Language Facebook Group for great advice.
Lucas was the catalyst for my learning, but now he isn’t my only motivation. I am happy to say that signing language will never again be on my peripheral mind. It’s a part of my life, and I am the lucky person who has it.
